By: Tarrant Smith
Ah, where to begin…
For some reason this week I’ve been running into the same wall. It usually begins with an eye-roll from the other person after I explain that I write romance novels. Somehow my being a romance author makes me less than in their eyes; less talented, less serious, less theme-based, less thought-provoking. Dismissable.
“Really? You don’t like things like Pride and Prejudice, Jane Eyre, Gone with the Wind, Anna Karenina, The Notebook, Time Traveler’s Wife, Outlander…?”
Before I know it, I’m defending the entire genre and explaining that my books aren’t like the princess driven trade paperbacks they might have read in their youth. The entire genre is now woke, where consent and diversity are addressed, and strong female leads are the norm.
If the conversation manages to get past the first roadblock, I’m then justifying the sex scenes in my books and that of other authors.
“Why do they even have to be there in the first place?”
That question usually leads to my explaining the very big genre differences between romance and erotica. Sex as a plot device versus sex for sex sake. I might even launch into a diatribe on the lingering dislike of romance as another subtle form of slut-shaming. Luckily, that usually only happens after a glass of wine…or two.
About Tarrant Smith
Tarrant Smith's paranormal romances has received several awards including, The Literary Gold Book Award for The Fate of Wolves (Dec. 2019), Literary Titan Silver Award for The Love of Gods (June 2019), and several Titan Awards for her Darkly series.